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Come meet us in person, connect with the community, and learn more about Your Ali-Bi.
Your Ali-Bi is the Mid-Michigan lifestyle community for bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, heteroflexible and other-spectrum adults — built around connection, community and a place to belong.
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Why Your Ali-Bi
We are dedicated to building a safe, fun and inclusive space for other-spectrum identities and their friends.
Welcoming to everyone and explicitly open to bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, heteroflexible and other fluid sexualities.
Monthly Meet & Greets at welcoming vanilla venues throughout Mid-Michigan. Bring friends or meet new ones.
Our private Harrison, Michigan club hosts invitation-only special events and gatherings for approved members.
What's Next
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Come meet us in person, connect with the community, and learn more about Your Ali-Bi.
There’s something happening behind the scenes. Invitation-only gatherings are shared exclusively with invited members.
Our Story
Inclusive in who we welcome. Intentional about the community we build.
Your Ali-Bi is a welcoming, open-minded lifestyle community created to help like-minded adults connect, socialize, and build genuine friendships in a respectful, judgment-free environment.
Based in Mid-Michigan, we host regular Meet & Greets at venues throughout the area, giving both new and experienced members of the lifestyle a comfortable way to meet the community, get to know us, and make connections. We're always interested in discovering new lifestyle-friendly venues and welcome suggestions from our members.
We're also proud to have our own private clubhouse in Harrison, Michigan, where we host select invitation-only events throughout the year. Watch our SLS group and event listings for upcoming Meet & Greets, gatherings, and clubhouse events.

At Your Ali-Bi, our focus is simple: inclusivity, respect, consent, connection, and creating a space where people can comfortably be themselves.
Your Ali-Bi is proudly inclusive, but intentionally curated.
We welcome adults across the spectrum of sexuality, gender, relationship styles, and lifestyle experience. You don't have to fit into a particular box—or carry a particular label—to feel at home here.
At the same time, being inclusive doesn't mean that every person is automatically the right fit for our private community. We're intentional about the membership we build and look for people who share our values of respect, consent, acceptance, discretion, communication, and consideration for others.
Our goal isn't to create the biggest club. It's to create the right community—a diverse group of like-minded people who genuinely enjoy being around one another and help maintain the welcoming atmosphere that makes Your Ali-Bi special.
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